How
do you achieve happiness, the kind that lasts all day? Robert Frost
wrote, Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.
While this is a beautiful aphorism depicting the spirit of the human
condition, there are many concrete strategies to assist you in making
happiness go the distance. Here is a sample weekday happiness schedule:
Morning
*
If you are jolted out of bed by your alarm clock, you are already
starting your day stressed which means anything can set you off.
Hit the snooze button. Just a few minutes more in bed and you wake
up gently and in control while you prepare yourself emotionally.
Savor these stolen moments.
* Eat a balanced breakfast of complex carbs and lean protein
food and mood go together.
* Change your seat at the kitchen table to see things from a fresh
perspective. Dont eat on the run!
* For the daily commute, car or public transportation, vary your
route just a little. Nothing deadens the heart like routine; wake
up your spirit. While you are at it, get off a stop earlier or park
your car a few blocks away to reap the mood-elevating benefits of
an outdoor walk.
* Use your daily commute as an opportunity to meditate. You can
meditate anywhere as long as you are aware of your surroundings.
Try this:
Imagine your forehead, the center of your inspiration, as a deep
blue; your pure heart is white and your belly is gold because you
are a golden child. Now align the three colors vertically, blue,
white and gold like a traffic light and you will feel emotionally
centered and in focus especially during rush hour traffic. Note:
if you are driving, do not close your eyes unless you are parked!
* Greet people at the train station, school bus stop or in your
office building. Happiness is propelled by numbers. When you are
acknowledged, you feel validated and energized. Pay it forward.
Afternoon
*
Keep in mind the correlation between food and mood. Eat a balanced
lunch. Exercise during half of your lunch break to move stress out
of your body and increase focus to avoid that afternoon slump. You
can walk, stretch or do exercises that use the bodys own resistance.
Your ability to find solutions will improve.
* De-clutter every afternoon. The days chaos accumulates to
weigh you down. Clear out your desk, your fridge, a drawer, the
mail or your pocket book to liberate your energy.
* Have a late afternoon healthy snack to keep energy levels at peak
performance. Drink a hot liquid like herbal tea to signal relaxation.
You cant gulp a hot liquid.
Evening
*
Unwind and enjoy your personal space with happiness rituals.
* To help you unwind before sleep and release toxins: First put
your feet in a pot of hot water (a temperature you can tolerate)
for one minute and then immediately place them in a pot of cold
water for thirty seconds. Repeat this cycle 3 times. This hot/ cold
treatment releases toxins from your feet the bodys
foundation. The heat circulates the blood; the cold water reduces
the swelling. The cold pulls out toxins in the contractive phase
and the heat brings blood and nutrients in the expansive phase.
* Have a treat right before bed you wont overeat because
you will be going to sleep and you will feel rewarded.
* To unwind before sleep: instead of that endless to-do list playing
in your head, how about a Look what I did today list!
Sweet dreams
About
the Author
Debbie
Mandel, MA is the author of Turn On Your Inner Light: Fitness
for Body, Mind and Soul, a stress-reduction specialist, motivational
speaker, a personal trainer and mind/body lecturer at Southampton
College. She is the host of the weekly Turn On Your Inner Light
Show on WHLI 1100AM in New York City , produces a weekly wellness
newsletter, and has been featured on radio/ TV and print media.
To learn more visit
her site.
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