The
pink or blue question is a moot one these days, isn't it? After all, it's so easy
to tell the gender of a baby before the happy day, so there's no need to guess.
Well, that's not strictly true. Even with the advances in technology, ultrasound
pictures aren't always 100% certain -- or
even close to 100% safe for mother and baby -- and many parents prefer to
be surprised, and some opt out of ultrasounds completely. If you're shopping for
a new baby without knowing the gender, you still might have to decide whether
to buy pink or blue.
You
could always flip a coin. Fortunately, there are more efficient and practical
ways to make sure that you pick up clothing and accessories that will be appreciated
and useful.
Gender-Neutral
Colors
The
easiest way, of course, is to stick with gender neutral colors in your choices.
As a culture, we're fond of dressing babies in pastels, but you don't have to
limit yourself to pale yellow and baby green to be safe. There are lots of other
gender-neutral colors to choose from.
Looking
for a crib set that isn't gender-specific? White and ivory are good choices, and
you can actually get away with eyelet and lace as long as it's not too delicate.
A plump white comforter and matching crib bumpers work just as well for a boy
as for a girl.
Primary
and bright, clear secondary colors are another great way to avoid the gender tangle
when selecting clothing and accessories for baby. Bright red, blue, green and
yellow sleepers will look adorable no matter what gender the baby turns out to
be. Pick onesies in turquoise, orange, dark green or red, either all a solid color,
or with contrasting ribbing along the edges.
Go
for the unusual. Imagine how high the "cute" meter will raise if you
outfit baby's room in tuxedoed penguins sporting bright red, blue and yellow ribbons,
or pick up a t-shirt emblazoned with red, yellow and blue balloons. You can even
pat yourself on the back for choosing bright colors for the baby's room and accessories.
As much as we love pastel baby togs, babies respond far better to bright, clear
colors.
Gender
Neutral Patterns
If
you're not sure on the boy/girl issue, keep in mind that you can err more easily
on the boy side than the girl. A baby girl in a t-shirt printed with sports motifs
is cute. You just wouldn't put a little boy in a sleeper printed with tiny sprigs
of daisies. Teddy bears and duckies are one gender-neutral choice, but you can
find adorable, unique prints that will stand out. Some of the more clever that
we've seen around lately - Noah's Ark, lions and tigers, traffic signs, seasonal
themes (candy canes, pumpkins, candy corn, etc.).
Other
gender neutral patterns that work for boys or girls clothing include candy color
stripes, odd-size polka dots and abstract patterns. Pick a motif, pick a color
and have a blast dressing your baby in clothes and accessories that don't scream
boy or girl.
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my name is Leah Day. In 2007 I gave birth to my son at home naturally and without
medical intervention. With my husband Josh, we created and coined Moderation
Parenting, a new style of parenting centered around the idea that no baby
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