I
was a chubby kid. My mother, out of love and fear, tried everything to help me
lose weight -- bribes, threats, punishments, diets, commiseration, even hypnotism
and diet pills.
I
usually lost weight, only to put it back on shortly after she stopped doing whatever
her latest idea was. Her biggest worry was I'd be unhappy -- that I'd be picked
on and unpopular, and no one would like me because I was a fatso.
Now
that I'm a mother myself, I can completely sympathize with her motives, but these
days my concerns about my children's weight are far more serious than teasing
and name-calling.
While
the name-calling can be devastating, what's seriously frightening these days is
the growing evidence that obesity leads to serious health complications, even
in young children.
Doctors
are diagnosing children as young as ten or eleven years with conditions that were
once the province of middle-aged people. Diabetes, heart conditions, and arthritis
-- all of these conditions can be connected with obesity, and more and more often,
they are being seen BEFORE children reach adulthood.
It's
enough to scare a mother into the methods that my mother used to try to take the
pounds off of me, but there are healthier ways to help your child lose weight.
If
your child is obese, your best bet is to serve up a healthy daily diet and encourage
daily exercise to help rev up his or her internal motors. Beyond that, here are
tips for helping your child lose weight -- while letting them retain a positive
self-image.
Put
EVERYONE on a diet. No kidding. Since the best way for your child to lose weight
is to eat a healthy, balanced diet in normal proportions, doesn't it make sense
that your whole family will benefit from eating the same way? Your dieting child
will feel less deprived if everyone is eating the same foods.
Serve
an after-school snack. It may be tempting to cut out the after-school snacks,
but the truth is you'll be doing more harm than good. The human body was never
designed for the "three square meals a day" regimen that has been the
norm for decades. A healthy snack in the midafternoon will provide energy for
afternoon play and stave off the "I'm STARVING" feeling that leads to
overeating at supper.
Shop
smart and healthy. Leave the cookies and chips on the shelf, and instead grab
the low-fat yogurt, fresh fruit, applesauce, and other natural treats. If you
make healthy snacks available and unhealthy ones tough to find, you'll keep temptation
out of the way.
Exercise
with the child regularly. Instead of just shooing them out to play -- or taking
away the Gameboy, go out WITH them. Put together a neighborhood game, or take
a walk around the block as a family. If you can get a family membership to a health
club with a pool, make a family swim a weekly event. It's more than just setting
an example -- it's having fun with your kids.
Cook
JUST enough. Instead of trying to limit portions on the plate, limit them BEFORE
you cook. Only prepare one single portion per family member. That heads off requests
for seconds before kids even start asking. No, you can't have the last piece of
chicken -- because there is no more.
Follow
those five suggestions, and chances are no one in your family will even realize
that someone is on a diet. And everyone will be healthier and happier in the long
run.
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