Giving
Drinking the Old College Try: Why Underage Drinkers Binge in America
by
Josh Day
If
you've been to college, chances are you remember the first time you saw someone
-- or a number of people -- drunk. I really believe drinking and college are unlike
drinking during any other stage of life. You
were young, fresh away from home and more free than you'd ever been in your life,
surrounded by other kids in the same boat, and if your first semester was anything
like mine, it was a transitional time of confusion and figuring out just how this
strange new environment of university life works.
And
if you're my age, you grew up in the late eighties and nineties and were likely
spoon-fed enough conflicting crap on the subject that a mere hourly dose of brew-soaked
college reality was enough to rattle your senses and make you question everything
you'd been taught.
Before
I hit the University of North Carolina at Asheville in the fall of 2000, I'd attended
three different schools. All of them were responsible for divvying out misinformation
-- and often all-out lies -- concerning alcohol and the terrible and dangerous
crime of underage drinking. Sometimes I think I'd like to contact each
one of the various educators, administrators, and "special guest" speakers
(from several cultural and religious institutions) and simply ask them why.
Why nothing but
scare tactics and propaganda?
Why
did you lay it on so thick?
Why
couldn't you have been truthful with us?
Honestly,
looking back at some of the all-school assemblies we sat through makes me sick.
One headmaster back in New Orleans used the death of a high school senior in a
drunk driving accident as a means to terrify elementary grade children; he actually
said some of us could die from swallowing one drop of alcohol, citing some
vague medical condition that's extremely rare and not well understood. While this
may sound ridiculous and laughable, this drivel was being ladled to children,
some of who had known the deceased.
Instead
of focusing on the dangers of drunk driving or being in the same car with a drunk
at the wheel, we were told we may painfully die if we drank even one drop of alcohol.
Of course, at the Episcopal school I later attended in Florida, we were also taught
AIDS can be spread by kissing or from someone's sweat in a basketball game, so
who's counting, right?
Unfortunately,
my experience with these kinds of "lectures" was not unique, and I believe
it sheds light on why so many college freshman binge drink.
My
first night in college I was in a room with other freshman who were drinking.
Some were drunk, some were loud and rambunctious, some weren't drinking at all.
The memory is almost surreal now, as I recall sitting on someone's dorm room couch
and waiting for the cops to break down the door any minute, or a kid to start
choking and going into death throes.
I
was eighteen years old.
As
the night progressed I fought my irrational instincts which were telling me to
flee back to my own dorm room. And slowly, I began to realize something: drinking
really wasn't such a big deal. It was not this catastrophic, life-wrecking
proximity bomb all the schools and their guest psychiatrist speakers had intimated
it was.
My
third or fourth night with this group of freshmen who lived on my hall I drank
a can of Busch beer. I had to force it down, as it tasted like a piss-drenched
loaf of bread (as did the imports I tried as well), but I wasn't feeling my throat
close up. I wasn't asphyxiating, as that long-ago headmaster had warned would
happen to a "meaningful percentage of the population."
I
realized most of what I had been told was lies.
I
remember the first time I saw someone puke from overdrinking. Again, all the old
fears came rushing back. If you ever see someone vomiting from alcohol, you
must call 911 immediately, I had been told so many times by so many different
"experts" and "adults."
Well,
over my four-year university tenure, I've seen a lot of people puke, a lot of
people drunk as snot, yet I've never seen or heard of anyone who directly died
from alcohol poisoning.
As
I had a somewhat unique experience, allow me to shed even more light on the subject.
I
joined a fraternity my freshman semester and am proud to say we were the only
fraternity to follow the rules and throw safe campus-wide parties. A third
party venue with an alcohol license, buses to pick the revelers up at campus and
bring them home, outside security (we hired off-duty cops), professional ID checking
services, five million dollars of liability insurance, and the entire fraternity
as sober party monitors.
To
give you an idea of how seriously we took these parties, if a brother showed up
to the event with even the hint of booze on his breath, he was sent home and immediately
put on suspension.
I
served as executive officer for the chapter, and during my term I oversaw the
many safety and liability precautions we had in place from our national office.
I recall a meeting with our district overseer as we went through various documents
and insurance forms.
Along
with our Risk Reduction chair (a brother whose sole job is to comply to safety
regulations and minimize risks to our guests as well as ourselves vis a vie lawsuits),
we were going through a list of alcohol-related deaths involving other chapters
and fraternites across the country.
Below
are a few of the deaths I remember:
A
female fell eight stories from her open dorm window into tree, intoxicated
Female
fell down a set of stairs, intoxicated
Female
died from drug overdose, intoxicated
Male
fell from moving vehicle, intoxicated
Male
(fraternity member) fell from a twelve foot rock wall, intoxicated
Male
froze to death in icy creek, intoxicated
Male
died from choking on own vomit after friends abandoned him, intoxicated
Female
died from choking on own vomit after friends abandoned her, intoxicated
Not
one cause of death was due directly to alcohol (alcohol poisoning), yet every
single one could have been prevented through proper education based on reality
and pragmatism, with an emphasis on moderation as opposed to totalitarian
teetotaling.
A
1996-1998 study on alcohol poisoning states:
Alcohol
poisoning deaths tended to be most prevalent among people ages 35 to 54; only
2 percent of alcohol poisoning decedents were younger than age 21. Among deaths
with a contributing cause of alcohol poisoning, almost 90 percent had an underlying
cause related to some type of poisoning from other drugs. (study)
I
am proud to say under my watch as executive officer, as well as throughout our
entire chapter's history at UNCA, not one person was ever injured at one of our
campus sponsored parties.
That's
not to say I haven't seen my fair share of the gross, the bad, and the ugly.
During
one memorably stressful party, the entire basketball team got into a fight --
luckily, we were able to break it up before anyone was hurt. We had to clean vomit
off the dance floor almost around the clock once midnight hit. Both male and female
lavatories were abattoirs of spilled beer and liquor, vomit, and urine.
The
shuttles (rented buses that took the guests to and from the party) were always
breeding grounds for skirmishes and fights and had to have a special combination
of brothers on board: a smaller, nonthreatening brother who kept cool under hot
circumstances and a big guy to act as muscle in the event things got out of control.
Thankfully, nothing got too out of hand, though there were times I was very happy
to have my 6' 5", 300-pound friend on the bus with me.
During
my college years, I was an advocate of stopping these parties altogether as none
of us ever had fun, we always lost a thousand dollars or more on each one, and
the campus never seemed to appreciate what we offered or went through to let them
have a good time away from what's not so unlovingly known as a cow college.
Largely
I blame the excessive drinking and unrestrained behavior we witnessed at these
parties on American culture and the taboo surrounding drinking. This taboo is
put in place by educators and the people they fly in to scare kids into "not
drinking," then it's only exacerbated by the ridiculous and over-the-top
parties depicted in movies and popular culture.
I
was a collegiate member of the largest fraternity during my tenure at UNCA, so
I saw my fair share of "life" at our small liberal arts college. Granted,
I may be square or just hung out with square people, but I never once witnessed
the kind of insane behavior that's so commonly and irresponsibly shown in teenage
movies. Even during our wild campus parties, it was much more toned down than
what I routinely see in movies and television.
These
movies, combined with the ridiculous "DON'T YOU DARE" policy pushed
by the schools, are a deadly recipe for binge drinking and probably the worst
enemy to a word every college freshman should know and live: moderation.
Let's
talk about moderation for a moment, and how we can impart this critical process
of thinking onto young people.
What
if all of us in fourth grade learned about beer? How it's brewed, how long it's
been around, its physiological effects on the human body, and dare I say, how
it tastes. We could have made our own batch while learning about Prohibition,
had our own Speakeasy in the classroom as we drank from little ketchup cups the
brew we made ourselves.
Demystifying
something deprives it of power. Forbidding the same thing, putting sanctions and
taboos against it, empowers it.
Moderation
is not a difficult thing to learn. And it's not a tough thing to teach. Being
honest with your children, students, and other young people about drinking --
it can be a lot of fun, it can be dangerous, it can get you in trouble, it is
a substance that must be respected -- will give them the tools they need to help
better understand the crazy college world into which they are entering.
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