Giving
Drinking the Old College Try: Why Underage Drinkers Binge in America
by Josh Day
If
you've been to college, chances are you remember the first time
you saw someone -- or a number of people -- drunk. I really believe
drinking and college are unlike drinking during any other stage
of life. You
were young, fresh away from home and more free than you'd ever been
in your life, surrounded by other kids in the same boat, and if
your first semester was anything like mine, it was a transitional
time of confusion and figuring out just how this strange new environment
of university life works.
And
if you're my age, you grew up in the late eighties and nineties
and were likely spoon-fed enough conflicting crap on the subject
that a mere hourly dose of brew-soaked college reality was enough
to rattle your senses and make you question everything you'd been
taught.
Before
I hit the University of North Carolina at Asheville in the fall
of 2000, I'd attended three different schools. All of them were
responsible for divvying out misinformation -- and often all-out
lies -- concerning alcohol and the terrible and dangerous crime
of underage drinking. Sometimes I think I'd like to contact
each one of the various educators, administrators, and "special
guest" speakers (from several cultural and religious institutions)
and simply ask them why.
Why
nothing but scare tactics and propaganda?
Why
did you lay it on so thick?
Why
couldn't you have been truthful with us?
Honestly,
looking back at some of the all-school assemblies we sat through
makes me sick. One headmaster back in New Orleans used the death
of a high school senior in a drunk driving accident as a means to
terrify elementary grade children; he actually said some of us could
die from swallowing one drop of alcohol, citing some vague medical
condition that's extremely rare and not well understood. While this
may sound ridiculous and laughable, this drivel was being ladled
to children, some of who had known the deceased.
Instead
of focusing on the dangers of drunk driving or being in the same
car with a drunk at the wheel, we were told we may painfully die
if we drank even one drop of alcohol. Of course, at the Episcopal
school I later attended in Florida, we were also taught AIDS can
be spread by kissing or from someone's sweat in a basketball game,
so who's counting, right?
Unfortunately,
my experience with these kinds of "lectures" was not unique,
and I believe it sheds light on why so many college freshman binge
drink.
My
first night in college I was in a room with other freshman who were
drinking. Some were drunk, some were loud and rambunctious, some
weren't drinking at all. The memory is almost surreal now, as I
recall sitting on someone's dorm room couch and waiting for the
cops to break down the door any minute, or a kid to start choking
and going into death throes.
I was
eighteen years old.
As
the night progressed I fought my irrational instincts which were
telling me to flee back to my own dorm room. And slowly, I began
to realize something: drinking really wasn't such a big deal.
It was not this catastrophic, life-wrecking proximity bomb all the
schools and their guest psychiatrist speakers had intimated it was.
My
third or fourth night with this group of freshmen who lived on my
hall I drank a can of Busch beer. I had to force it down, as it
tasted like a piss-drenched loaf of bread (as did the imports I
tried as well), but I wasn't feeling my throat close up. I wasn't
asphyxiating, as that long-ago headmaster had warned would happen
to a "meaningful percentage of the population."
I realized
most of what I had been told was lies.
I remember
the first time I saw someone puke from overdrinking. Again, all
the old fears came rushing back. If you ever see someone vomiting
from alcohol, you must call 911 immediately, I had been told
so many times by so many different "experts" and "adults."
Well,
over my four-year university tenure, I've seen a lot of people puke,
a lot of people drunk as snot, yet I've never seen or heard of anyone
who directly died from alcohol poisoning.
As
I had a somewhat unique experience, allow me to shed even more light
on the subject.
I joined
a fraternity my freshman semester and am proud to say we were the
only fraternity to follow the rules and throw safe campus-wide
parties. A third party venue with an alcohol license, buses to pick
the revelers up at campus and bring them home, outside security
(we hired off-duty cops), professional ID checking services, five
million dollars of liability insurance, and the entire fraternity
as sober party monitors.
To
give you an idea of how seriously we took these parties, if a brother
showed up to the event with even the hint of booze on his breath,
he was sent home and immediately put on suspension.
I served
as executive officer for the chapter, and during my term I oversaw
the many safety and liability precautions we had in place from our
national office. I recall a meeting with our district overseer as
we went through various documents and insurance forms.
Along
with our Risk Reduction chair (a brother whose sole job is to comply
to safety regulations and minimize risks to our guests as well as
ourselves vis a vie lawsuits), we were going through a list of alcohol-related
deaths involving other chapters and fraternities across the country.
Below
are a few of the deaths I remember:
A
female fell eight stories from her open dorm window into tree,
intoxicated
Female
fell down a set of stairs, intoxicated
Female
died from drug overdose, intoxicated
Male
fell from moving vehicle, intoxicated
Male
(fraternity member) fell from a twelve foot rock wall, intoxicated
Male
froze to death in icy creek, intoxicated
Male
died from choking on own vomit after friends abandoned him, intoxicated
Female
died from choking on own vomit after friends abandoned her, intoxicated
Not
one cause of death was due directly to alcohol (alcohol poisoning),
yet every single one could have been prevented through proper education
based on reality and pragmatism, with an emphasis on moderation
as opposed to totalitarian teetotaling.
A 1996-1998
study on alcohol poisoning states:
Alcohol
poisoning deaths tended to be most prevalent among people ages
35 to 54; only 2 percent of alcohol poisoning decedents were younger
than age 21. Among deaths with a contributing cause of alcohol
poisoning, almost 90 percent had an underlying cause related to
some type of poisoning from other drugs. (study)
I am
proud to say under my watch as executive officer, as well as throughout
our entire chapter's history at UNCA, not one person was ever injured
at one of our campus sponsored parties.
That's
not to say I haven't seen my fair share of the gross, the bad, and
the ugly.
During
one memorably stressful party, the entire basketball team got into
a fight -- luckily, we were able to break it up before anyone was
hurt. We had to clean vomit off the dance floor almost around the
clock once midnight hit. Both male and female lavatories were abattoirs
of spilled beer and liquor, vomit, and urine.
The
shuttles (rented buses that took the guests to and from the party)
were always breeding grounds for skirmishes and fights and had to
have a special combination of brothers on board: a smaller, nonthreatening
brother who kept cool under hot circumstances and a big guy to act
as muscle in the event things got out of control. Thankfully, nothing
got too out of hand, though there were times I was very happy to
have my 6' 5", 300-pound friend on the bus with me.
During
my college years, I was an advocate of stopping these parties altogether
as none of us ever had fun, we always lost a thousand dollars or
more on each one, and the campus never seemed to appreciate what
we offered or went through to let them have a good time away from
what's not so unlovingly known as a cow college.
Largely
I blame the excessive drinking and unrestrained behavior we witnessed
at these parties on American culture and the taboo surrounding drinking.
This taboo is put in place by educators and the people they fly
in to scare kids into "not drinking," then it's only exacerbated
by the ridiculous and over-the-top parties depicted in movies and
popular culture.
I was
a collegiate member of the largest fraternity during my tenure at
UNCA, so I saw my fair share of "life" at our small liberal
arts college. Granted, I may be square or just hung out with square
people, but I never once witnessed the kind of insane behavior that's
so commonly and irresponsibly shown in teenage movies. Even during
our wild campus parties, it was much more toned down than what I
routinely see in movies and television.
These
movies, combined with the ridiculous "DON'T YOU DARE"
policy pushed by the schools, are a deadly recipe for binge drinking
and probably the worst enemy to a word every college freshman should
know and live: moderation.
Let's
talk about moderation for a moment, and how we can impart this critical
process of thinking onto young people.
What
if all of us in fourth grade learned about beer? How it's brewed,
how long it's been around, its physiological effects on the human
body, and dare I say, how it tastes. We could have made our own
batch while learning about Prohibition, had our own Speakeasy in
the classroom as we drank from little ketchup cups the brew we made
ourselves.
Demystifying
something deprives it of power. Forbidding the same thing, putting
sanctions and taboos against it, empowers it.
Moderation
is not a difficult thing to learn. And it's not a tough thing to
teach. Being honest with your children, students, and other young
people about drinking -- it can be a lot of fun, it can be dangerous,
it can get you in trouble, it is a substance that must be respected
-- will give them the tools they need to help better understand
the crazy college world into which they are entering.
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